Since Mike won’t be reading this blog anytime soon and by the time he does read it, Valentine’s Day will have passed; I thought I would share my gift to him with you.
Gifts is my primary love language and consequently I am a GINORMOUS gift person. I love to give them, love to receive them, love to put a lot of thought into them and see the reaction one has when they open it. This has always been a part of me, sometimes to a fault, but I don’t see it changing anytime soon. Well, Mike unfortunately doesn’t share my love of gifts and absolutely HATES it when I spend a lot of money on him. It has taken me 5 Christmases, 4 birthdays, 4 Valentines Days, 1 anniversary and many other celebrations to comprehend that he really doesn’t like extravagant gifts and that I need to tone it down.
Well, this Valentine’s Day I think I finally got it into my thick skull not to spend a lot of money but rather get him something truly meaningful and that comes from my heart. When I was browsing Barnes and Noble for books to read on our upcoming trip I ran across this little book, What I Love About You by Kate and David Marshall.

Now, I have looked at those couple journals before and thought they were cheesy but I decided see what it was all about and I was pleasantly surprised. I felt it was a more grown up version of a love journal and immediately I was answering the questions in my head about Mike and our relationship. Then it clicked, this was a perfect Valentine’s Day gift and I knew I had to get it for him.
I have spent the past week and a half filling it out and it has been a wonderful reminder of the love I have for him, the memories we have shared and the amazing husband that he is. I can’t wait to give it to him and remind him of things he forgot, show him how I view him and the man he is in words rather than actions and relive the memories together. If you haven’t thought of anything to get your spouse for Valentine’s Day yet, I highly recommend it. There are a few cheesy questions throughout it but for the most part I thoroughly enjoyed it. I got just as much filling it out as I am sure Mike will and it will be something we have forever. I just thought it was a creative and fun way to document my feelings for him, where we are in life now and how our relationship has evolved over the past 4 years of being together. I really think this is my best gift to him yet and only cost $14.00 and some time!
UPDATE: I meant to get this posted BEFORE I left to Jamaica but ran out of time. Mike absoulutely loved it and we spent a few hours on Valentines Day sipping champagne and reading about the life we have together. It was by far my most successful gift to him yet and it reminded us why we love one another.