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Wednesday, April 23, 2008

A Rant and A RAVE!

Since I got married, it has been my goal to make sure all future brides and moms-to-be know how much I love Bed Bath and Beyond, and how much I dislike Target in regards to registries.

After my experience with Target's registry, I will never purchase from or personally register there. This is not because they don’t have anything I like; in fact I think they have great stuff. Their designs are innovative, are well priced, plus they have a Starbucks and these wonderful fruit parfaits in their deli section. Basically, they make for an enjoyable shopping experience and I was excited to spend a day registering there. That was until I found out what their return policy on registries was.

Target informed me that without a gift receipt you may only return two things per 365 days a year under the amount of $20.00. So what do you now do with the three extra blenders you received because the registry wasn’t updated when the first person purchased it? I guess open your own margarita and daiquiri bar because that’s the only way you are ever going to use all three! Now what if you have a gift receipt? Target will return it but you may then only purchase from the same department the gift was originally purchased from. So what if you return two hand towels with a gift receipt and want to buy a camcorder instead? Well, you can buy the camcorder but you can’t use the credit from the hand towels toward that purchase because it isn’t from the same department. Doesn’t it seem a little ridiculous to limit what you can spend a store credit on? I mean, it all goes to the same corporation and if they would allow you to use your credit on something large, such as a camcorder, you are most likely going to spend more money than what you returned! Instead, by implementing this crazy return policy, they are leaving a bad taste in the mouths of registerees and isolating a vast majority of their potential customers. I mean, it’s not like brides and mothers-to-be don’t have more to worry about then Target’s silly return policy! Good grief!


on the other hand has PERFECTED the registry. After learning how awful Target’s return policy is and that Costco doesn’t have a registry, we decided to only register at BBB. Not only is their online registry super easy to use, they don’t have any restrictions on their return policy at all, which made buying and returning things much more pleasant. If it was purchased off your registry you can return it, for cash, no questions asked. What other place gives you cash without a receipt besides Costco or Nordstrom?

They also don’t have any limit on how long you have to return things, which in our case was a great thing. We decided not to use the fabulous towels, shower curtain or other bathroom items we received until our bathroom was complete. Well, sometimes you don’t know how colors are going to look together or if that particular item is going to look good where you envisioned it, and you may have to exchange it for something different. With most stores you have 90 days to make a return before they will not exchange it any longer. Not with BBB! They will return it as long as they still stock it! So we held onto all of our bathroom items for 8 months before using them, knowing we could still exchange them if we needed to!

The icing on the cake is the 20% off coupons they send out to you if you are on their mailing list and their 10% registry completion program they offer. I saved SO much money using those discounts and was able to get a lot more stuff. To top it off even further thanks to my raving, I got a little surprise in my mailbox from Bed Bath and Beyond. Since Hannie and Lindy both registered there after I told them how much I loved them, they sent me two $25.00 off a $50.00 purchase as a way to thank me. Now that makes me want to tell everyone! What a great marketing tool and benefit to me!

Our house is now decorated top to bottom in Bed Bath and Beyond items and I love it! I was really impressed with the variety they had and they get new and different things in daily. They are really reasonably priced and I feel as though everything I buy from there is a steal. Every time I walked in with a few things to return, I would always walk out spending more than I returned because I felt my business was valued there and I knew they would back up my purchases. Plus, I know if anything breaks I can pick it up without the box, take it in and they will exchange it for me, no problem. Our coffee grinder has broken three times already and each time I drive down to the store with the old broken one and walk back out with a brand new one!


Now if you really love Target and want something from there, either ask for Target gift cards or use the money you receive from returns at Bed Bath and Beyond to buy it. Trust me, you will save so much time, energy, money and you won’t be stuck with a bunch of stuff you can’t use. I am so happy that BBB is finally starting to carry more baby stuff because when I finally decide to start a family, that’s where I will be registering! They have everything from strollers to bedding to diaper bags to pacifiers! Look at this cute crib set I found!

Sorry for the long post! This has been festering for over a year now and I am glad to get it off my chest! I feel so much better now :-) Thanks for reading.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Fours...

Today has been dragging so I decided to steal this survey from Rachel's blog and fill it out myself. So happy it's finally 3:45 on Friday!

A) Four Jobs I've had:
Sno Cone connoisseur, Hostess at Red Robin although Chris likes to remind me that I also dressed up as the robin on occasion, ticket sales representative for The Utah Grizzlies, and an Insurance Agent for Allstate Insurance, which I have been doing for the past 5 and ½ years.

B) Four People who e-mail me: (regularly) Mike, Laura, Jess and my mom

C) Four of my favorite foods: Macaroni and cheese from Noodles, puffy cheetoes, french fries and three cheese ravioli from Olive Garden with salad, breadsticks and alfredo sauce

D) Four places I would rather be right now: In bed, Italy, the beach or anywhere with Mike.

E) Four people I think will or I would like to respond: Ashley, Hannie, Malerie, Melissa

F) Four movies I would watch over and over: The Notebook, The Office on DVD, 10 Things I Hate About You and Romy and Michelle’s High School Reunion

G) Four Places I have lived: Sandy, Salt Lake, Cottonwood Heights and Murray

H) Four TV Shows I Watch: Grey’s Anatomy, Dirty Sexy Money, CSI and The Office

I) Four websites I visit daily: all my favorite blogs, myspace.com, people.com and ksl.com

J) Four things I always carry with me: every gift card I own, my day planner, my AMEX and a deck of cards

K) Four random facts about me: I can't whistle, I graduated high school when I was a junior, I can’t drive without talking on my phone but hate carrying it with me anywhere else and I am a little OCD. If I know someone is coming to my house, I have to stay in the kitchen and look out the window every five seconds until they get there.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

GMATS, Moves and Dreams, oh my!

So, Mike FINALLY signed up for his GMAT today after months of studying, early morning and late evening prep courses, and a little (ok a lot) of nagging from me. The big test day is June 7 and I am really excited to see what his official score is so he can start applying. My heart is set on Boston, but the MBA program at Harvard is so competitive that there is only a sliver of a chance he will get in. I am crossing my fingers though because I truly think I am an East coast girl at heart, thanks to my Dad. Besides, the next choice is Michigan, and I am not looking forward to moving there!

Whether he gets into grad school or not, I am pretty sure we will take the plunge and venture off to a new state with different opportunities. We have lived here all of our lives and are ready to discover and get settled in a new city together. My life has been so much the same for the past 6 years that it’s time for a change, and this would be a HUGE one! It’s definitely fun to think about! If we do move I will miss my family and friends more than they could ever know but I believe this would be an amazing growth experience for Mike and I, both together and as individuals. I will have to learn to rely on my marriage and myself more than I ever have before, because it will be just us. I welcome the adjustment and the struggles with open arms though, as I think it will make us stronger people and a better husband and wife to each other.

Who knows where this adventure could take us but eventually we want to come back to Utah and settle down. This is our home and we love it and while we want to experience a new place now, I couldn’t imagine living that far away from my family when I decide to start one of my own. My mom is my rock and I want my children to live close enought to see her on a weekly basis and develop their own personal relationship with her. While she may spoil them rotten with toys and treats like she does our dogs, she will be the best grandma and I couldn’t take that opportunity away from our kids.

This soapbox started with Mike signing up for a GMAT test. As you can see, this test could be a life changing experience for both of us and could open doors we never expected. This is something we both truly want so please wish him luck and keep him in your prayers as he walks into his test. He could walk out one step closer to our dream.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Calling all you crafty critters!

This year I am on the fundraising committee for The Sharing Place’s annual fundraiser The Colors of Life. As you all know, my dad died 8 years ago, and The Sharing Place has been my savior. It has helped me process my own grief, as well as allowed me to help countless other children who have suffered a loss in their own life. This organization is so important to me, and I wanted to make sure I did everything I could to help raise money for them. That’s where you come in!

This year I am looking forward to bringing in some new and unique items to auction off! I know how talented and creative you all are, and would love to have some of your items highlighted at this event. I really think it’s a great platform for your business, as about 250 people are expected to attend and see your works of art. Plus, yours or your business name will be mentioned in the Colors of Life program, The Sharing Place newsletter, along with on The Sharing Place website. If you or anyone you know is interested in donating something to The Colors of Life, please just let me know. All donations are tax deductible, and the proceeds of these items goes to a great cause!

Thanks for all your love and support! I wouldn't be here or this strong without each and everyone of you, so thank you.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Baby Hungry!

I think the universe is trying to tell Mike and I something even though Mike truly doesn’t agree!

This week has been full of babies and is making me realize how much I can’t wait to be a mother. On Thursday we met our friend’s baby boy she just adopted and she is so beside herself. On Friday we went over to some friends house where they have the cutest pictures of Baby Paige everywhere! She is so silly and beautiful and I hope I have a baby girl as fun as she is! Saturday morning before the MS walk I got to play with Jess’ nephews who are SO funny, and Saturday evening I finally got to meet and play with Baby Cole, who is such a good baby! He just hung-out and flirted with all the girls and then went to sleep. Not to mention that Annie looks INCREDIBLE and I would have a baby in a second if I knew I could look as good as she does! So Sunday morning I asked Mike, “If we had a baby as good as Cole and I looked as good as Annie after then can we have a baby?” He immediately told me no so I gave him a pouty face and went and changed for breakfast.

Well, the universe wasn’t done yet. We went to breakfast with a few of the Sigs where JD and Brittney announced they were expecting! I am so beyond thrilled for them and know they will make amazing parents! Their announcement just fed my hunger though! To top it off, I walked in this morning and as soon as I flipped on the lights the old receptionist came in and introduced me to her brand new baby boy. I held him for a good ten minutes and he just cuddled with me. It was so cute and made me want a baby even more!

Most of you know that if we are anywhere where there is a baby around I will play with them until you rip them away from me. Mike hates coming to family reunions with me because I spend more time playing with Mesa and all the other new babies than I do spending time with him. I just love children and have wanted to be a mom since I can remember. I know that becoming a mom will be the most rewarding thing I will ever do and can’t wait to embark on that journey with my be. It takes my breath away just thinking about experiencing pregnancy, seeing Mike become a daddy, seeing my mom become a grandma and having the ability to give myself completely to another human being.

Now even though the universe is clearly trying to tell us something, I know now is not the right time. Mike is in the middle of applying to grad school out of state and we haven’t even been married a year yet. I guess I just see all these happy mamas and know how fulfilled I will be when I finally become one. We probably won’t even begin trying for another year and a half at least and I know it will be a long and hard wait but I also know that in waiting we will be able to give our children a better life than we can now. I just wish I had some nephews or nieces to keep me occupied until then. Any friends or family out there need a sitter? I’m FREE!

My cute cousins Mesa and Cohen who make me want a baby even more!

Monday, April 7, 2008

The end of my quest!


Since traveling to Italy ten years ago I have been on a quest to find the perfect gelato. Everytime I see a gelato shop I will stop in, order a bowl and walk away disappointed. Granted, there are not many gelato shops here in Utah, but of the ones that are, none have been able to transport me back to Italy. There is just nothing like strolling down the streets of Siena and enjoying this refreshing treat. I had started to give up on my search, that is, until today when we happened upon this little gem.

(a camera phone at it's finest)

Bellissimo Gelato just opened and is only a few blocks from our house (5500 S 900 E, behind Bajio). After enjoying a dinner at Thai Garden we decided to give them a chance. I walked in thinking that I would again walk out disappointed, as I had so many times before. Much to my surprise, it was excellent! It wasn't too creamy or too icy, the flavor was spot on and was everything I had been searching for. I sat in that little shop overjoyed that my quest for the perfect gelato had finally been completed with this little ma and pa shop.

They have over 20 different flavors and all of their ingredients are shipped directly from Italy. We ordered a half red-orange half lemon, which I highly recommend. I have always been more of a sherbet/sorbet ice-cream person so this was perfect for me. They also had a vast array of chocolate, caramel and other traditional ice-creams that looked fabulous. They do allow you to try flavors so we also tried the papaya, watermelon and lime. I loved the lime so that will be my next cup, unless they have the raspberry made. I can't wait for it to get a little warmer so Mike and I can walk down there with Mekah and Semper. I think they will like it too!

Piacere! (Enjoy!)

Sunday, April 6, 2008

The fruits of our (but mostly Mike's) labor


So, after 4 months of dust covering everything we own, tripping over tools in the middle of the night and doing my hair with a handheld mirror, our bathroom is finally finished! I am beyond thrilled to finally enjoy this new addition and spend my nights and weekends experiencing married life, rather than working on home projects for a while.


Mike did a phenomenal job and impressed me so much with his knowledge and attention to detail. I am beyond proud of my handyman hubby and am gleaming over his accomplishment. The travertine is his crowning glory as he spent a good part of two months meticulously working on it. It truly is his baby.



While it took a while, the end result is completely worth it. We love it and the experience taught us so much. It is still in need of a few decorative touches but for the most part we can fully enjoy our brand new bathroom. Now if only I could talk him into changing the door. :)


Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Welcome Mrs. Ricci to the blogging world...

I started this blog right after we got married but have never posted anything because I have always been too busy. Well now that things are slowing down I thought I would finally jump on the blogging bandwagon!

So here is goes, my first blogging post! I thought it only appropriate to have it be a survey about our first nine months of marriage.

What is his name? Michael Vincent Ricci, Mike or just Be.

How long have you been married? 9 ½ months, where has the time gone?

How long did you date? 2 and ½ years but 14 months of that was our engagement

How old is he? 26, I like to tease him because I am only 23.

Who eats more? I snack more but he has earned the name the human garbage disposal because he just can’t waste food!

Who is smarter? Mike is incredibly intelligent. He tries to hide it though. When I first met him I thought he hadn’t even graduated high school. He showed me!

Who said I love you first? I did on a whim

Who is taller? Mike is unless I am in my 5 inch stilettos

Who sings better? Mike thinks he does, but I think we are both horrible!

Whose temper is worse? Mine by far. I overreact. Mike gets frustrated easily though and is not a very camper if he is sleepy.

Who does the laundry? We both do but I tend to just throw it in and Mike folds it and puts it away.

Who does the dishes? We both do, we hate having dirty dishes in the sink.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? I do but we are weird and sometimes switch.

Who pays the bills? I do. I like feeling as though I contribute as much as he does.

Who mows the lawn? Mike does, I hate yard work

Who cooks dinner? The restaurant although I do make some mean mac and cheese and Mike makes some great tuna sandwiches! We need to cook more.

Who drives when you are together? Mike, he won’t let me drive, I don’t blame him.

Who is more stubborn? I am, he says I’m sorry quicker than I do.

Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? Mike, though once he apologizes I will usually admit being in the wrong.

Whose parents do you see the most? Mine but we don’t see either as much as we want to

Who proposed? Mike did

Who has more friends? Mike does being a Sigma Chi but I definitely love them all. I have some amazing friends though, even if I didn’t bring as many into the relationship.

Who has more siblings? I do by one brother

Who wears the pants? Depends on the situation but I usually do ;)

Tag: I tag Hannie, Rachel, Emily (this means you have to start a blog) Lori and Ashley. Have fun!

I have an incredible husband who I adore. He inspires me everyday to be a better person and he has not only helped me to realize my true self but he also saved me from the person I didn't want to be. He has taught me how to love selflessly and unconditionally, trust more, and what the word LOVE actually means. He is my life, my love, my soulmate and I wouldn't be who I am today without him. He is amazing. I love you be!